Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
Which makes me sounds like a lazy, self-entitled queen. Or it does to me. But, it’s kind of true, I suppose. Don't tell me you #love me, show me. #lovelanguages Click To Tweet Give me a foot rub (or a pedi, as one commenter recommended), fix me dinner, wash my car. It’s not that I’m lazy, really; the beauty of acts of service is that I work, I write, I have three kids, and a house to run–take something off my plate and I feel adored.
But enough about me. You should totally go take the test and see what your language is. I’d appreciate the act of posting yours in the comments. ;-)
Edit 01.06.2013: So, apparently, Gary’s crew has been moving things around on the website, so these links are dead now. You can still find your language by going to the home page.