He sees things in her that others don't. Maybe that she doesn't even see in herself. Take my super independent chick from above. Everyone else thinks she cold-hearted, calculating even (because, hey, that's what our society thinks of women like that--but that's another post). But he sees that she has a soft side. Maybe he recognizes it in the way she take time to comfort a person because she can relate to them. Maybe, instead of kicking someone when they're down and climbing on top of their unconscious body to plant a conquering flag in their backside, she offers to help.Read More →